What I learned about women after approaching 1,000s of them in over 80 countries
My name is James (some people also call me Maverick; I'm the author of this blog). For the last ten years, I've been traveling around the world. I've been to over 80 countries and 6 continents.
Traveling is not the only one of my passions. A much bigger passion of mine is women. I love women. I love everything about them. I love approaching them. I love flirting with them. I love seducing them. I love spending a night with a beautiful woman.
I could even say that I travel mostly for the beautiful and gorgeous exotic foreign women.
But for most of my life, meeting and seducing beautiful women was merely a dream and not reality. The women I liked wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. I couldn't figure out the right way for me to approach them. I couldn't figure out the right way of generating attraction.
And I've tried everything. I read all the pickup blogs. I purchased every single pickup book. I memorized all the openers and conversation starters.
Absolutely nothing worked. I was chasing women left and right but these women weren't really interested in me. They played endless games and left me frustrated. I hated it. And I didn't know what else I could do.
When a beautiful Ukrainian girl made me realize I was completely wrong about women
In late 2011, I had a strange experience that completely changed how I interacted with women.
I was in Ukraine, traveling on an overnight train to the southern part of the country. In my train compartment, I met a cute girl. We hit it off instantly. After we arrived to the destination, I got her number and we made plans to hang out later on.
A couple of days later I gave her a call. We met and spent a whole day hanging out. We had a fantastic time. Few days later we met again and had drinks. The date ended with a heavy make out.
The next day I left the country and flew to Croatia.
While we were away, we kept in touch, constantly sending each other pictures; me of my trip to the Mediterranean and she of her vacation to Turkey.
As soon as I landed in the airport, the first thing I did was contact her and tell her I was back in the country. She was visibly excited as demonstrated by her warm welcome message.
I quickly suggested that we meet up. She agreed.
On the morning of the day that we were supposed to meet, she told me that she was busy and couldn’t see me. We rescheduled for few days later. The day came and she was busy again.
This continued to happen for a couple of more days. Each time that she couldn't make it, she gave me some barely believable excuse.
She had the most typical excuses: "I'm busy," "I have school," "I have to meet my grandmother," "I don't feel well," etc, etc.
At some point, I got sick and tired of her various excuses and stopped contacting her. And just like that the girl of my dreams disappeared from my life.
How a beautiful model in Dubai lead me to discover the secrets of female attraction
In 2012, I flew to Dubai to visit a friend.
While walking around one of the huge and fancy malls, I suddenly stopped dead in my tracks. Facing in the near distance was a giant billboard with a very beautiful supermodel. The headline above her head read: "Everything that you desire."
I was spellbound. I couldn't move. I wanted her. I was attracted to her. I wanted to seduce her. I wanted to make crazy love to her all night. I desired her.
But here's the important thing: she didn't provoke me to desire her. She didn't ask me to desire her. She didn't buy me drinks at the bar. She didn't touch me. She didn't smile at me.
Heck, she wasn't even real.
Yet, I wanted her. I wanted her badly. I wanted her... well... just because. I wanted her because — she generated desire in me.
I became obsessed trying to figure how a man can become desirable to women
Over the next months, I spent a lot of time thinking why I wanted that woman on the billboard so badly.
I knew that a gorgeous woman can generate desire in men, but how can a man do the same? How can I become desiring to women, even without saying a word like that hot model?
I also knew that while men are visual animals, quickly judging women based on their physical characteristics, women don't behave this way. Women don't judge men based on physical attributes.
They must be seeking something else.
Feeling like I was on to something, I desperately began studying human psychology. I spent weeks holed up in the library reading every book there was. I also ordered lots of books from Amazon.
I also began observing how highly successful people act—not just with women, but in all situations in life. I studied all kinds of great men, in the past and the present. Guys like CEO's, athletes, actors, celebrities, generals, emperors, etc.
After many months of studying psychology and observing highly successful people all over the world, I realized two important things:
Rule #1) It is possible to be desired by women in the same exact way that women are automatically desires by men.
Rule #2) It is possible to do so regardless how you look physically. All it takes is a change of habits and mindset. And the best news is that absolutely anyone can do it.
The 10 Commandments Of A
High Value and Desirable Man
Studies have shown that your personal value is the single most important determinant in human interactions. It's an inseparable part of being human to gravitate to others who have value.
In this section, I cover what value is, how do you obtain it when you have no value to begin with, and how do display it in a relationship.
Time is something that everyone of us have in the exact same amount (24 hours per day), but what's crucial is how you we use it. Some people are able to leverage time and come ahead.
In this section, I tell the right and wrong way of using time. I also teach you how to use time as a weapon to get what you want from others. Don't worry, there's no manipulation there.
Are you man of standards? According to relationship experts, standards are one of the most defining characteristics that either attract or repel people. After all everyone wants to be with someone who has standards.
In this section, I tell you how to cultivate standards even when you feel you shouldn't have them.
All successful people have one thing in common: they are natural interviewers. No, not like at a job interview (although that's part of it). I'll tell you more about this powerful mindset. Believe me, you'll feel more confident just thinking about it.
Another thing that all winners and go-getters understand is entitlement. They're entitled to things they have and things they want to have.
I'll share with you some of the research and interviews I've done that'll help to internalize this powerful mindset.
Everyone wants to be confident. I know, I've lacked confidence most of my life. Until, I realized that confidence can actually be learned and it isn't something you're born with.
Let me share with you what I've learned about this important topic.
Many guys shy away from confrontation. They back away from obstacles. They back away from their fears. They also back away from successes.
I'll tell you how you can use psychological tricks to overcome this big problem.
According to Dr. Glover, the author No More Mr. Nice Guy!, one of the worst qualities that a man can have is neediness. Neediness is like a mosquito repellent for women. Nobody wants to be with a needy person.
I share with you some of the psychological research I've learned on on what neediness is and, of course, how to obliterate so women draw to you instead of being repelled by you.
Last but not least, every man must build his kingdom. Not the physical one, although that's part it, but more of a kingdom of friends, women and others. That's what all leaders have in their possession.
Here's a small preview of what else you'll learn…
- The number one factor that’s responsible for making you attractive or unattractive to others.
- How to permanently eliminate two qualities that turn women off: neediness and desperation.
- Potent ways to utilize time as a weapon when dealing with others.
- How to have a super strong frame in any interaction.
- How to live life like a king by viewing everything from a higher value vantage point.
- How to internalize the powerful law of abundance.
- Train your mind to demystify and de-idolize women (and others).
- The one thing you must always do before showing interest in someone.
- How to “flip the script” and assume the upper hand in any social interaction.
- How to get people to do what you want without begging (or even asking them) for it.
- The difference between entitlement and confidence, and how one automatically leads to another.
- Effortlessly obtain confidence by eliminating these 3 psychological hurdles that stand your way.
- A trick I use that automatically boosts my productivity. It works because it’s based on a well-known scientific principle.
- And much, much more in this serious 230-page book
When you become a desirable, high value man, you automatically…
- Stop using silly pickup lines to get women's attention!
- Stop supplicating and validating yourself to every woman that you find attractive!
- Stop convincing women to like you and go out with you!
- Stop searching endlessly all over the Internet for advice as to why a certain woman isn't calling you back!
- Stop buying expensive dinners, drinks and gifts for women, hoping that you'll impress them!
- Stop wondering if that "special" woman got away!
- Stop many more toxic behaviors that's too long to list here...
Does stopping all that unattractive and desperate behavior and then have women come to you sound good to you?
It absolutely should!
How much does it cost?
How much do you think such a product should cost? There are bootcamps with some "guru" that will set you back anywhere from $2,500 to $10,000 dollars. There are also packages that sell for at least $300 to $1,000 dollars.
But I'm not going to charge you anywhere near that price. I'm purposely pricing this product low so that it can help as many men as possible. The last thing I want is for you go through the nightmares of getting rejected left and right by women that I went through.
That's why the book can be yours for only $14.95.
That's cheaper than the price of lunch and drink at a mediocre restaurant.
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What other readers like you are saying…
Reading the book definitely filled in many of the “missing pieces” that I was having problems in. It made me understand important things about being true to yourself and living life on your own terms. I’m definitely a better man to myself and to the people around me.
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John
I just finished reading your new book, and I must say it was one of the most refreshing reads since I’ve started this journey a year ago. I’ve already begun applying it into my life, especially improving my lifestyle. One thing that has rubbed off on me is your positive attitude toward women and embracing their feminine energy rather than being bitter, angry or frustrated and is and is a mindset I hope to further embrace. Last night in the club, I noticed how good I felt with many beautiful women dressed to the 9’s, and I simply embraced how cute they are, whereas before I may have gotten frustrated that they get so much attention. There is a lot of bitterness in the community toward women. It could make for a good article topic to talk about this issue. Anyway, loved the book, love the blog, keep it up..
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ATTRACT WOMEN
BY
BECOMING DESIRABLE
Purchase the book now and receive exclusive bonuses:
- Attract Women By Becoming Desirable
(Book: 230 pages; comes in three editions: PDF, MOBI, EPUB) - Author's Commentary
40 minutes recording describing each mindset in great detail and how it makes you desired by women - Bonus #1
How To Quickly And Effectively Learn A New Foreign Language
20 minutes recording
$15 Value - Bonus #2
How To Go From A Hobby To A Business
30 minutes
$15 Value - Bonus #3
How To Build A Profitable Business While Traveling All Over The World
30 minutes
$15 Value - Unlimited Support
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Download the book immediately and put the concepts to use on your date or next night out
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Yes, you read that correctly.
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To the new you,
P.S.: Once you begin implementing the mindset I've outlined in the book, I hope you'll drop me an email and let me know what you think. I'll be with you every step of the way.
